Enlightened wisdom believes that the question is more important than the answer. In other words, you can never get the correct answer without the right question being asked. So asking the RIGHT questions to yourself is the most important thing you can do for your personal growth. We are born and will all die one – this is certain. In the middle of our birth and death is this called Life. We don’t have a choice about the fact that we will die one day, but we do choose how we will Life. So here’s an important question: What is Life for? What is my Life about? What is the purpose of my journey here?
It’sto ask this question because the answer will decide your life experience. Is Life just for growing up, getting an education, meeting your partner, having children, creating an extensive , company, or family, having experiences, friendships, and relationships, and then one day leaving it all behind when you pass away? You may do all of this along the way, but what is the big picture of Life all about? This is an essential and powerful question to ask. As a teenager, I asked myself this question and then searched for the answer. I looked within and into my heart and explored externally by meeting and learning from enlightened teachers. Eventually, I found my answer after much searching, practice, and experience.
This is the answer to the big question that will clarify and set the path of your life’s path – You are here to be the best you can be, in your relationships, work, friendships, efforts, and your Life. We are all here, experiencing Life, to bring out the bestit with others. We are all here to be the best we can be as individual human beings. While each of us has different goals to fulfill and Life to love, there is a common thread in our existence. To help you Life, let’s begin by understanding that there are essentially just three ways to live Life.
- You can everyone else is more important than you: your partner, your kids, your work, and your in-laws – all of this is more important than being authentic to yourself. Life: regardless of circumstances, this is a life where you don’t follow your dreams; you keep chasing STUFF. You are the least essential person in your Life;
- You can next day, he gets up and does the same thing again. This is the conditioned Life, albeit stable, secure, and comfortable. Living this Life with no a sense of life purpose every day is dangerous as it may bring you to a mindset that believes this is how Life is supposed to be. Once this mindset has taken root, you are condemned to a lifetime of mediocrity and nonsignificance. . Regardless of circumstances, this is a life where sometimes you get your way, but only after others reach theirs. So there is always a compromise. And you’re supposed to feel satisfied with what you’ve got, been given, or received in Life. You look around and see that everyone else is doing the same thing – they are not the lives they want to live. Instead, they are always compromising to keep moving ahead. Mr. Jones gets up, goes to work, , spends time with the family, then goes to bed. The
- You can live your Best Life! the reason you are alive. You have a clear clearly understando do with your Life. You are , not to fulfill others expectations of you. You are full of purpose, passion, and a sense of completeness. You are engaged in work that you love. You Life with someone you love. When you wake up, you know you’re living your highest potential.
If you can find the courage inside you to tips. The first tip is the most difficult, but let us start here because if you can do this, all the others that follow are easy.Life, here are 5fivetips to help you do so. Living your best, highest, most prominent, and brightest Life is easy when you follow the five
your BEST Life – Accept Responsibility for your Life and everything in it.
Understand that you can only change what you have Responsibility for. If you are not responsible for it, you do not have the power to change it either.
So accept Responsibility for yourself and create your BEST Life.
MCommitthat you will live your best Life. Accept that you must make it happen – not your partner, husband, or family. It’s not your mother’s Responsibility! Others can help and guide you, but it is your job to walk this path. This also means that you STOP WAITING!
Stop depending on or waiting for others to make your Life better! Instead, live it yourself. This step is essential but challenging too. If you don’t participate in making your own life better, well, then nothing can become better. Make a silent mental commitment to yourself “I will do/change whatever I have to… I am responsible for you can take to make your Life improved todalifeerow, not next month. Identify some small steps/things that will improve your life experience today, and then take action on them.
Every day that we are alive, we invest. We invest our time, energy, and effort in our children, homes, business, travels, stocks & shares… but along the way, we forget to invest in ourselves.
You are at the center of your life and everything you have created. So make sure the core is always well taken care of. Think about it – before your children came into your Life, were you not there first? Who came before your? You! Before the relationship? You!
You are the reason why everything else is in your Life. Sometimes we lose sight of this powerful truth…
So ensure you invest in yourself by training your mind to be happy. Meditation is the ancient science of mind training, showing you how to create happiness and joy. It also gives you mental clarity that allows you to see the big picture of your Life and empowers you to take steps to make it what you wish.
You cannot live your best Life without a sense that supports you to be happy. So invest in training your mind through meditation. Find a good teacher and then spend the time, energy, effort, and money you need to learn the wisdom to guide you to your BEST Life.
in your health and good experiences. Exercise, travel, , hang out with positive people, and, most importantly,e the good in your daily life.
Tip 3 for living your BEST Life – Discover and follow your passions.
Ask yourself this simple question – How much passion do you feel in Life? Do you feel alive and on fire as you start your day? Are you excited to be at work? Do you think that you are doing what you were born to do?
To live your BEST Life, you must discover and release your passion – this hugely benefits you and everyone around you. It would help if you looked within yourself to find meaning and work that will light a fire inside you.
It takes courage to live your BEST Life because it means finding and following what you love to do. Be aware that you will always be better at doing what you love to do than doing what you don’t love. Now, if you think you don’t have a passion/dream in the first place, I want to remind you that you DO! It’s been so long since you thought about your passion that you feel it is no longer there. So spend to be lit inside you.
your BEST Life – Release negativity.
Release and let go of all negativity, regardless of why it’s there. All negativity hurts you more than those around you. There are always good reasons why we, hatred, grudges, or jealousy toward others, but no reason is good enough to keep hurting ourselves.
Imagine that you aresome heavyweights in your hands. And now you raise your hands and flap your wings to fly. You will find that the weight is hefty and holds you down. Blame, complaining, anger, and grudges are all the weights that hold you down.
Interestingly, the more positive you become, the more you see good opportunities – reasons to thank you and be grateful. And the universe supports you more too.
Be aware that if five years ago someone hurt you, but you keep thinking about how that person hurt you by what he said or did… then he hurt you but once, butthinking back about it.
If you get on a flight to go somewhere, there is always a limit on the baggage you can carry. 20kg in the economy, 30kg in business class, or 40kg in first class… but there is always a limit. If you take more than that, you are penalized. Similarly, if you carry too much baggage in Life, you are disciplined and won’t enjoy the beauty that Life offers.
The enlightened teachers say it is never the snake bite that kills you; it is the poison left behind that kills you. So, let go of the negative experiences of your Life. Accept that you have to let go of the pain, not the people who caused it (if you wait for them, you are playing the role of a victim).
for the hard knocks of Life, and move on to a better person. Don’t hold on to the past because the past is not holding on to you!
your BEST Life – Love yourself every day.
Treat yourself with love daily, not just on special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries. Don’t wait for others to make you feel good, either! Take the Responsibility to make yourself feel good no matter what happens! Again, meditation training will be invaluable for this.
So, every day remember that the most important person is YOU!
Enjoy small pleasures daily- a cup of coffee, a walk in the park, yoga class, a good book to read, a chat with a friend, a massage, enjoying the beautiful trees around you… anything to show yourself some love every day. If Life were just one thing, aeveryonewould have the same life experience. Some are happy, others unhappy. Some are full of gratitude, and others are full of complaints. The truth is that Life is nothing without you. There would be no experience/ definition/ quality of Life without you.